Healing a broken heart is a painful and difficult thing to do.  It can be made worse by the relationship itself but should be looked at and treated as an event that should be mourned.  In order for us to heal, we need to recognize our pain.  That may seem like a bittersweet analogy especially if your heart has just been broken; but is one of the greater truths in life!  Your pain is a result of your ability to love and be loved and in order for you to move forward with what you learned; you must give yourself time to grieve.

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One thing never recommended is to jump into a new relationship.  Rebounding cheats your self out of gaining the lessons you were supposed to learn from this previous relationship.  If you think of each relationship in life as a series of ladder rungs that are helping you to make your way to the top; you will be able to take each step with gratitude.  Perhaps gratitude and finding a place where you can feel gratitude are incredibly important in the healing of your broken heart. IT may seem like a consolation prize at first; but being grateful for all of our experiences and allowing ourselves to see and feel what we have to learn from it makes heartbreak more tolerable.

Some people believe that everything happens for a reason while others believe that they can control everything.  Sometimes, a broken heart teaches us in a cruel way that we don’t have control.  No matter how much we wanted to see ourselves with someone; we can’t force people to love us!  This is heartbreaking all in itself.  But at the same time, part of the healing process is recognizing that love is supposed to feel good and be a partnership.  It never can nor will work one sided and no woman should want to stay in a situation where they are not loved entirely!  Being let go affords you the opportunity to be free and to fly forward to what is waiting next for you.

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Healing a broken heart is not fun, nor is it something that we can prepare ourselves to do.  If we are spend our relationships bracing for the worst we are no doubt attracting that to us and at the same time negating our ability to feel real love!  By the same token; not having relationships out of fear or turning a soft heart bitter because of a bad relationship only serves to hurt us!  Cherish the love you had, be grateful for the fact that it entered your life and decide to see the split as movement to your next plane in life.  IT was a rung on the ladder and obviously, you have something more; something better and something more closely matched to your heart awaiting you!  This by no means indicates that you can’t cry and take the time to heal yourself; you must!  Btu it also doesn’t mean you have to hold yourself down in feeling sad!  Although you might not be able to see it right away there will come a time in your life when you will look back on your broken heart and not be able to taste the shrill pain it caused.  You may even look at the man standing next to you and realize had it not been for that one heartbreak; you would never know the love you know now!  That is destiny in action.