As a woman looking for love it always seems that there are those women around you who seem to flawlessly and effortlessly pick up the attention of men!  It is almost like they have some alluring smell that only men can pick up on or something special in their eyes!  The truth is that all of us can have that!  If you are looking for the perfect date and interested in finding that special someone than all you have to do is act like it has already happened and learn how to be flirty.  Not all of us are born flirty and courageous; but you can learn these tricks.  What people notice first about you has nothing to do with what you are wearing or the color of your hair!  It comes with the way you carry your self and that certain air of intrigue that you have!  Here is how to get it!

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First, be good to your self.  Exercise and eat well.  Take care of your insides and your outsides and your aura of energy will be attractive to those around you.  Avoid negativity at all costs.  When we are filled with worry or negativity other people can sense it and they will avoid us like the plague.  Walk around as though you are always thinking carpe diem and never allow negativity to enter your body.  If you struggle with this try meditating or using powerful colors like reds and oranges to assert your powerful position of positivity.  The other trick is to carry this positivism into your speech and smile often!  This will make you unavoidable to notice by others and people will naturally smile back and be attracted to your sense of feeling good.  Although these are all non-verbal clues they are much stronger than the things we say and the things we wear!

Another secret to attraction is to put your self in a place where you will get noticed.  Don’t be afraid to walk into the center of the room, to laugh out loud and never cover your mouth when you smile.  As awkward as it may feel, this type of behavior exudes confidence and beckons people to pay attention to you!  You have a lot to offer this world and an abundant amount of special gifts that will make people want to befriend you.  If you have trouble believing this; than try working on mantras, meditations or affirmations that will literally make you a believer in your self!

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One secret to attraction is to make eye contact.  The way you look has more to do with how you carry your self and how you greet those around you.  When you look down or around and avoid the eyes of other you appear shady and recluse.  You are giving the impression that you don’t want to be bothered.  Make strides in this area by practicing it with store clerks, gas station attendants and other people that you may walk by on a daily basis.  Be a good listener and attentive to those around you and make strides to feel natural in your own skin and environment.

Another very powerful secret to attraction is to wear colors.  Stay away from blacks and browns no matter how much you love them.  Men love women in red, pinks and purplish colors.  Wear a daring pair of shoes or one wardrobe essential that has color and you will get noticed more by men.  As silly as that may seem; color naturally gravitates people to and toward things; including other people!