Are you a good flirt?  Flirting is actually something that we feel inside ourselves and it comes from much more than sexual energy.  Although useful when trying to attract the opposite sex, flirting is really about self confidence and taking a chance by engaging yourself with another person.  You can flirt with men or women and if learned properly can be a very confident and assertive way to move about your personal life!  After all, when you are flirting you are making people around you feel comfortable and in those moments of flirtatious fancy people in your presence are enamored by you!  Here are some tips to help learn the art of flirting.  You will find many of the quite simply resemble confidence!

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Stand with your self open. This means your feet and hands are not squished or embraced around your self.  This shows that you are open to others and are more approachable.  Make eye contact with everyone in a room and smile back if you are smiled at.  If you can hang in there; hold a mans eyes longer than he holds yours and he will be taken by your confidence!  This is an important part of flirting.  Another very important part of flirting is your body language.  Tapping, shaking your legs or anything else will make you appear nervous and is an uncomfortable energy for others to be around.  Use your body to touch other people on the shoulder or help a man with their shirt collar.  This is a powerful tool in the art of flirting.

The way you smell can also help you to flirt.  Men are most attracted to vanilla and cinnamon scents and there are a lot of fabulous body washes in both.  Men attach these scents with pheromones and are inherently wired to gravitate toward them.  Don’t over do it though!  A sheer waft of your scent will be enough and over powering with perfume is a big turn off to most men.

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Use a touch of red!  Red naturally says power and men are attracted to women who are not afraid to wear or accessorize with red.  This doesn’t mean you have to buy a completely red wardrobe; but a pair of red cowboy boots or a red purse will certainly get you noticed in a crowd.  Other powerful colors are orange and pink!  Men are drawn to those colors as well.

The biggest tip you need to master the art of flirting is to always move your self into the center of a room and always maintain impeccable posture.  When you are standing in the center of a room with your shoulders back you are saying “I am here”!  This means you aren’t afraid to get attention and when you do; make sure you respond appropriately!  If a man approaches you who you are not interested in, take it as a compliment and never act snooty or rude!  Other men are watching to see how you react and if you are callous or cold – they will write you off immediately.  Flirting is really about how YOU feel about yourself and the more confidence and esteem you can exude the better you will be at the art of flirting.