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It seems that for women one of the most difficult things to do is end a relationship.  This may because they aren’t sure it is the right thing to do, they worry about hurting someone they care abouts feelings or because they just don’t feel justified in doing so.  If you have had nagging thoughts or suspicions that your current relationship is not fulfilling you the way it should then perhaps it is due time you consider ending the relationship.  Keep in mind that sometimes ending one form of your relationship with someone can give birth to a whole new one that is better and even more empowering than it was before.  For this reason and obvious issues of Karma, ending a relationship should always be done with compassion especially if the decision is one sided!

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SO what are the grounds for when to end a relationship? The first rule is if there are any obvious or not so obvious signs of physical or emotional abuse.  No one deserves to endure that and there is nothing noble or just in staying with someone who doesn’t treat you right!  No excuses!  Other reasons you might know its time to end a relationship are if you have begun to look elsewhere for the companionship you seek.  Perhaps coworkers or other men seem to interest you more than your own partner.  You should either give your partner time to rectify the situation or make the decision to move on.  If you are being lied to constantly or if your partner is not as serious about the relationship as you are; it may also be time to move on.  So many women feel that in time their partner will change!  Truth is, you can do little to change someone else – but you can change your own life to make it more abundant.  It is important to have some faith in inherent things like destiny and fate than to waste time toiling or wishing that your partner is different.  This is the Universe trying to tell you something; perhaps trying to send you to that one special person who will be your eternal match!  If you stay stuck in the mud, you will never know.

When its time to end a relationship often coincides with when the time has come for a much needed change in your life to happen.  It is normal human nature to have growth spurts even in adulthood that perpetuate you somewhere else.  You may want to reach higher for certain goals or you may have changed viewpoints on your future that don’t fit in with the ideals of your current partner.  The goal is to take what you have learned from this relationship and move forward with the new knowledge; giving blessings and gratitude for the opportunity.  If your partner doesn’t understand; they really don’t have and you can only try in so many ways to explain yourself.

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The bottom line is that relationships have a purpose and meaning in all our lives and they are supposed to constantly be adding to our existence.  When it comes to those relationships that are chosen or extra-curricular, there really is no reason to stay if you are not bettering your self from it.  This may seem selfish or egotistical on the surface, but chances are if you are feeling lack in the relationship your partner is too! Letting go means freeing your hands to hold something else!  When to end a relationship can be as simple as knowing when to begin a new chapter of the evolution that is your life!